There have been many challenging seasons in my life, but the most recent has been one of the toughest. My husband is battling Parkinson’s, a debilitating illness that has had a dramatic impact on our lives. In the past year, he has suffered two broken hips, leaving him dependent on a wheelchair. It has been heartbreaking to witness his struggles.
My role has shifted to being his primary caregiver, and I now manage most of his daily needs. I have always been committed to caring for my husband for the long haul, and I have never considered an alternative. My Italian heritage instilled in me from childhood that you take care of your family as long as they need you. I strongly believe in the importance of standing by family, no matter what challenges arise, and I find strength in that.
When my husband and I met, I quickly knew he was the one. Although he is 20 years my senior, when we met, I could see he was a wonderful man. Now, 40 years later, he is still the love of my life. We have faced ups and downs in life, creating a beautiful journey that we both cherish. I am reminded, as I care for him, of all the treasured memories we share. Despite the challenges we have faced, our dedication to one another has always been our top priority.
A few years ago, we decided to retire in the warm Arizona desert after spending most of our lives in the lush green landscapes of Washington State. Transitioning to a new environment proved challenging for me, especially being so far from family and friends. No longer having my support group nearby made it more difficult, especially when dealing with significant issues.
A while back, I was in my garden, and I felt overwhelmed by mounting external conflicts and pressures. I was trying to fight all the battles on my own, and the weight became too heavy. I began crying out to God, surrendering it all. At that moment, I literally felt the weight lift from my shoulders. An incredible sense of peace washed over me. On days when I feel consumed with exhaustion (which is now more frequent), I tune the world out and begin praying. I gain my greatest strength through prayer and my love of music, especially praise songs. I never tire of hearing “How Great Thou Art.” I also look forward to Andy leading the praise team on Sunday mornings. Their songs often linger in my heart throughout the week.
During my lifetime, no matter how difficult my journey, because I have invited God into my life, I know He is always with me. His presence offers me courage and comfort, reminding me I am never alone
